Fatherhood Leadership Assessment
A self-evaluation for fathers, mentors, and men of influence. Rate each statement from 1–5: 1 = Rarely True, 2 = Sometimes True, 3 = Often True, 4 = Usually True, 5 = Consistently True.
Name and Contact Information
Full Name
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First Name
Last Name
Email Address
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example@example.com
Phone Number
Please enter a valid phone number.
Purpose & Identity
I understand fatherhood (or mentorship) as a calling, not just a responsibility.
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Rarely True
1
2
3
4
Consistently True
5
1 is Rarely True, 5 is Consistently True
I see myself as a leader in my home, community, and relationships.
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Rarely True
1
2
3
4
Consistently True
5
1 is Rarely True, 5 is Consistently True
I am clear on the kind of man and father I want to become.
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Rarely True
1
2
3
4
Consistently True
5
1 is Rarely True, 5 is Consistently True
I make decisions based on values, vision, and long-term legacy.
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Rarely True
1
2
3
4
Consistently True
5
1 is Rarely True, 5 is Consistently True
I believe I was built with purpose and potential that matters to others.
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Rarely True
1
2
3
4
Consistently True
5
1 is Rarely True, 5 is Consistently True
Presence & Connection
I am emotionally present and engaged with my children and family.
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Rarely True
1
2
3
4
Consistently True
5
1 is Rarely True, 5 is Consistently True
I listen more than I lecture.
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Rarely True
1
2
3
4
Consistently True
5
1 is Rarely True, 5 is Consistently True
I create intentional connection moments.
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Rarely True
1
2
3
4
Consistently True
5
1 is Rarely True, 5 is Consistently True
I check on my children’s emotional and mental well-being.
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Rarely True
1
2
3
4
Consistently True
5
1 is Rarely True, 5 is Consistently True
I model love, forgiveness, and healthy communication.
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Rarely True
1
2
3
4
Consistently True
5
1 is Rarely True, 5 is Consistently True
Integrity & Character
My actions match my words.
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Rarely True
1
2
3
4
Consistently True
5
1 is Rarely True, 5 is Consistently True
I take responsibility for my mistakes.
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Rarely True
1
2
3
4
Consistently True
5
1 is Rarely True, 5 is Consistently True
I pursue personal growth.
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Rarely True
1
2
3
4
Consistently True
5
1 is Rarely True, 5 is Consistently True
I manage stress and anger in healthy ways.
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Rarely True
1
2
3
4
Consistently True
5
1 is Rarely True, 5 is Consistently True
I protect my family’s trust.
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Rarely True
1
2
3
4
Consistently True
5
1 is Rarely True, 5 is Consistently True
Faith, Values & Mission
My faith guides my leadership.
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Rarely True
1
2
3
4
Consistently True
5
1 is Rarely True, 5 is Consistently True
I pass down wisdom and principles.
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Rarely True
1
2
3
4
Consistently True
5
1 is Rarely True, 5 is Consistently True
I cultivate purpose and honor within my home.
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Rarely True
1
2
3
4
Consistently True
5
1 is Rarely True, 5 is Consistently True
I pause and reflect before major decisions.
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Rarely True
1
2
3
4
Consistently True
5
1 is Rarely True, 5 is Consistently True
I see fatherhood as part of my God-given legacy.
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Rarely True
1
2
3
4
Consistently True
5
1 is Rarely True, 5 is Consistently True
Legacy & Impact
I consider my impact on my children’s future.
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Rarely True
1
2
3
4
Consistently True
5
1 is Rarely True, 5 is Consistently True
I have a clear vision for my legacy.
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Rarely True
1
2
3
4
Consistently True
5
1 is Rarely True, 5 is Consistently True
I mentor other men or younger men.
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Rarely True
1
2
3
4
Consistently True
5
1 is Rarely True, 5 is Consistently True
I break unhealthy generational patterns.
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Rarely True
1
2
3
4
Consistently True
5
1 is Rarely True, 5 is Consistently True
I speak life and identity into the next generation.
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Rarely True
1
2
3
4
Consistently True
5
1 is Rarely True, 5 is Consistently True
Total Score (Optional) Add your total score here (sum of all sections): ____ / 125
Score Interpretation:
100–125: Strong & Steady Leader
75–99: Growing With Intention
50–74: Solid Foundation, Needs Focus
Under 50: Opportunity for Major Growth
Thank you for completing the Fatherhood Leadership Assessment. Your responses will help you grow as a leader and father. We will contact you with your results and next steps.
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