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What’s Really Going On For You Right Now?

What’s Really Going On For You Right Now?

A brief assessment to help you understand what’s weighing on you — and what kind of support would actually help.

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When you think about what you want… what actually happens inside?
I get hazy or go blank, like someone dimmed the lights in my brain.
A part of me lights up, and another part immediately doubts it.
My chest tightens — it feels emotional before it feels practical.
My brain goes into planning mode, then stalls out.
I feel tired before I even begin.
I feel the spark… but staying with it is hard.
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If you were totally honest, what’s the heaviest part of being stuck right now?
Not knowing what’s true for me.
Feeling like I can’t trust myself to choose.
Carrying emotions I don’t have language for.
Feeling like my body shuts down the moment I try.
Feeling like I’m doing everything alone.
Losing momentum again and again.
Feeling like I “should” have figured this out by now.
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Which sentences make your body exhale a little?
“I don’t need clarity about everything, just the next step.”
“My desires are valid — even if I’m scared of them.”
“My feelings are trying to help me, not derail me.”
“My nervous system needs support, not pressure.”
“I don’t have to hold all of this alone.”
“Consistency is easier when someone actually cares about my progress.”
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Which inner experience feels most familiar these days?
Overthinking until I’m emotionally numb.
Second-guessing the second I get close to something important.
Looping in emotional waves I can’t quite name.
Feeling frozen or overwhelmed for “no reason.”
Showing up for others but struggling to show up for myself.
Bursts of inspiration followed by long lulls.
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If I sat with you for a quiet minute and asked, “What hurts the most?” — what would you point to?
Confusion
Doubt
The emotions underneath everything
Exhaustion
The loneliness of trying to figure it all out
The gap between who I am and how I’m actually living
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What kind of support would make your system actually relax?
Someone helping me sort what’s true from the noise both inside and outside.
Someone reflecting my intuition back to me.
Someone helping me metabolize what I feel.
Someone holding a steady, grounded pace with me.
Someone who doesn’t get overwhelmed by my overwhelm.
Someone who actually keeps me accountable in a human way.
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What do you wish someone would see about you without you having to explain it?
That I’m trying really hard, even when it doesn’t look like it.
That I’m more sensitive than I seem.
That I’m capable — I just get tangled and tripped up from doubt.
That I’m tired from carrying so much alone.
That I want to change more than I want to avoid.
That I’m not flaky — I’m overwhelmed.
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If something shifted for you in the next 30 days, what would feel like relief?
Knowing my next direction.
Trusting myself enough to move.
Feeling emotionally lighter.
Feeling less overwhelmed or shut down.
Having someone in it with me.
Following through on something that matters.
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What’s Really Going On For You Right Now:

Clarity Fog

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You’re carrying a lot in your mind, and your next steps feel hazy or “not quite right.”

That mental fog is a sign that your system is waiting for a clear direction to emerge. You probably overthink, loop ideas, or scan for signs before committing. Even small moments of clarity — choosing the next inch rather than the whole path — can give your system the momentum it’s craving.

If what you just noticed feels familiar, that’s exactly why this assessment exists — to help you see what’s alive in your system and what might actually help you move forward.

I offer a free 30-minute conversation where we can:

reflect on what you just discovered about yourself,

explore what’s shaping your next steps,

and see if working together feels like a good next step.

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What’s Really Going On For You Right Now:

Self-Trust Issues

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You know what you want, but part of you questions whether it’s valid, allowed, or safe.

That doubt is a protective mechanism, reflecting how much you care about doing the right thing. Noticing these wobbles and learning to honor your own instincts gently can shift the nervous energy and open space for decisive movement.

If what you just noticed feels familiar, that’s exactly why this assessment exists — to help you see what’s alive in your system and what might actually help you move forward.

I offer a free 30-minute conversation where we can:

reflect on what you just discovered about yourself,

explore what’s shaping your next steps,

and see if working together feels like a good next step.

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What’s Really Going On For You Right Now:

Emotional Weight

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There’s a lot alive in your body right now — emotions bubbling, looping, or waiting to be named.

Feeling deeply is a signal that your system needs to be heard. Witnessing and acknowledging these emotions, even briefly, can unlock clarity and energy for the next step. The micro-moves we explore together help your nervous system feel supported while you move forward.

If what you just noticed feels familiar, that’s exactly why this assessment exists — to help you see what’s alive in your system and what might actually help you move forward.

I offer a free 30-minute conversation where we can:

reflect on what you just discovered about yourself,

explore what’s shaping your next steps,

and see if working together feels like a good next step.

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What’s Really Going On For You Right Now:

Nervous System Overwhelm

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Your mind and body are working hard to hold it all together, but your energy keeps tipping into exhaustion, distraction, or freeze.

This is your system signaling it needs rhythm, support, and grounding. Small, consistent micro-actions — paired with relational support — can help your nervous system feel steady and ready to engage.

If what you just noticed feels familiar, that’s exactly why this assessment exists — to help you see what’s alive in your system and what might actually help you move forward.

I offer a free 30-minute conversation where we can:

reflect on what you just discovered about yourself,

explore what’s shaping your next steps,

and see if working together feels like a good next step.

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What’s Really Going On For You Right Now:

Inner Conflict / Protectors

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You may feel pulled in multiple directions, like different parts of you want opposing things.

This inner conflict is normal, even wise — your system is protecting you while trying to move forward. Recognizing and naming these parts gives you a sense of agency and insight, letting you work with them rather than against them.

If what you just noticed feels familiar, that’s exactly why this assessment exists — to help you see what’s alive in your system and what might actually help you move forward.

I offer a free 30-minute conversation where we can:

reflect on what you just discovered about yourself,

explore what’s shaping your next steps,

and see if working together feels like a good next step.

Book Your 30-Minute Conversation
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What’s Really Going On For You Right Now:

Relational Longing / Doing It Alone

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You’re carrying responsibility alone, whether it’s emotions, decisions, or goals.

That sense of isolation can amplify overwhelm or indecision. Having someone attuned to reflect your system back, hold space, and track your momentum can create safety and freedom for the parts of you that want support.

If what you just noticed feels familiar, that’s exactly why this assessment exists — to help you see what’s alive in your system and what might actually help you move forward.

I offer a free 30-minute conversation where we can:

reflect on what you just discovered about yourself,

explore what’s shaping your next steps,

and see if working together feels like a good next step.

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What’s Really Going On For You Right Now:

Momentum Gaps

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You know what you want and maybe even how to get there, but consistency slips away.

Momentum gaps aren’t laziness; they’re a signal that your system needs pacing, accountability, and a structure that feels human rather than mechanical. Focusing on micro-steps with a supportive presence can unlock the rhythm you need.

If what you just noticed feels familiar, that’s exactly why this assessment exists — to help you see what’s alive in your system and what might actually help you move forward.

I offer a free 30-minute conversation where we can:

reflect on what you just discovered about yourself,

explore what’s shaping your next steps,

and see if working together feels like a good next step.

Book Your 30-Minute Conversation
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What’s Really Going On For You Right Now:

Momentum Gaps

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You’re carrying a lot in your mind, and your next steps feel hazy or “not quite right.”

That mental fog is a sign that your system is waiting for a clear direction to emerge. You probably overthink, loop ideas, or scan for signs before committing. Even small moments of clarity — choosing the next inch rather than the whole path — can give your system the momentum it’s craving.

If what you just noticed feels familiar, that’s exactly why this assessment exists — to help you see what’s alive in your system and what might actually help you move forward.

I offer a free 30-minute conversation where we can:

reflect on what you just discovered about yourself,

explore what’s shaping your next steps,

and see if working together feels like a good next step.

Book Your 30-Minute Conversation
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