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  • San Diego Spanking+ Skill Swap

    Last Registration Day - January 15, 2026

     

    San Diego Spanking+ holds a vetted, all-kink BDSM skill swap designed to build community and celebrate the unique connections we share. Our socials and private events create space for exploration, learning, and growth. We’re excited to welcome you to this upcoming Skill Swap. Details and registration are below:

    • This vetted event is a dedicated time to practice—whether you’re stepping into a brand-new adventure or reconnecting with skills you already love.
    • Consent and safety are our guiding values.
    • This is a dry event. Non-alcoholic beverages and light refreshments will be provided.
    • Age Requirement: 18+
    • If you have not completed our current vetting process, you may still register and reserve your spot. However, you must contact us to finalize your vetting. See “Vetting Process” below for details.

     

    Ticket Information:

    • Ticket sales close 24 hours before the event
    • All tickets are non-refundable and non-transferable

    Venue: Club Safeword — centrally located in the Kearny Mesa area.


    ***PLEASE NOTE***:

    San Diego Spanking+ reserves the right to determine mutual fit for all private events. We may refuse service or revoke attendance from any individual whose presence is deemed detrimental to the safety or well-being of attendees, facilitators, or staff. This policy is applied to support a safe, respectful environment for everyone, and we do not discriminate in the enforcement of these decisions.


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  • HOW TO REGISTER IN ONLY 3-STEPS


    STEP 1 — BEFORE PROCEEDING WITH THE FORM BELOW, CLICK THE LINK TO READ ALL IMPORTANT DETAILS.


    Please carefully review the full event information, including rules, terms, conditions, and the release of liability. After reading, return here to complete the registration form.

    • By marking the “I agree” box below, you acknowledge that you have read, understand, accept, and will adhere to all Event Rules, Terms & Conditions, and the Release of Liability.
    • House Party Rules
    • Terms & Conditions, Release of Liability

      

    Step 2 — COMPLETE VETTING (IF YOU HAVE NOT ALREADY)


    Our last vetting opportunity took place at the 10/21/25 munch, where many attendees completed the process.

    • If you have not been vetted for this event, please send us a DM on FetLife or email sdsplusoffice@gmail.com for next steps.
    • We will conduct Zoom-based vetting sessions for those who have not yet completed the process. In your message, please include your available dates and times so we can schedule a session that fits your schedule.

    All individuals who complete the vetting process will receive an email confirming their approval status.

     


    STEP 3 — SUBMIT PAYMENT

    Once you’ve completed the registration form, submit your payment via Venmo to @cinderellascloset0409


    In the Venmo notes write: 

    • 1/18 SS
    • FetLife or Plura name 

     

    Your spot is not secured until payment is received. A confirmation message will be sent once your ticket is approved.


    Step in, skill up, and celebrate the community we love!

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  • Vetting Time Slots:

    If these dates and times don't work then check the "Other" option and message us on Fetlife or send an email to sdsplusoffice@gmail.com with dates and times you're available. 

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