This quiz explores how feel about being desired by another man — and how your partner’s presence, interest, or imagination plays into that. It looks at curiosity, boundaries, arousal, and readiness within the hotwife - stag & vixen dynamic. Answer at your own pace and follow what feels true for you.
Q1. Be honest… when your husband imagines you with another man, how much does your body react?
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I barely register it.
I feel a small flicker.
I get a warm little tingle.
I can feel my body lean in.
I melt into it immediately.
Q2. So… how turned on does all that extra attention actually make you?
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It doesn’t do much for me.
It’s a little flattering.
It gives me a playful buzz.
It seriously turns me on.
I love it — I soak it up.
Q3. How much does your husband wanting you like this secretly excite you?
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It doesn’t really move me.
It’s kind of cute.
It adds a naughty spark.
It turns me on a lot.
It makes everything feel hotter.
Q4. Does it make you smile… knowing your husband is watching or picturing you being wanted?
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Not really — it’s not my thing.
Maybe a little, sometimes.
It makes me smirk.
It makes me feel dangerously sexy.
It makes me glow — I love knowing he’s watching.
Q5. How comfortable are you with playing right on the edge of exclusivity?
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Not comfortable at all.
I get nervous around that edge.
I’d flirt with it… carefully.
I feel pretty comfortable there.
I love playing on that edge.
Q6. How much does the element of “being seen” increase your arousal in this fantasy?
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It doesn’t change much.
It adds a tiny thrill.
It definitely spices it up.
It makes it intensely hot.
Being seen is one of the best parts.
Q7. Between us… how badly do you want to actually try this?
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I don’t want to.
I’m curious, but not ready.
I’m tempted… more than I admit.
I really want to explore it.
I crave trying it for real.
Q8. How much does the emotional tension make it even better?
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I don’t really need that.
It helps a little.
It makes it feel more real.
It makes it so much better.
The tension is what makes me ache for it.
Q9. How ready are you to finally tell your husband what really turns you on?
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Not ready at all.
I’d rather avoid it.
I could hint at it.
I’m ready to talk openly.
I’m ready to say it straight.
Q10. Right now… how close do you feel to stepping into your hotwife side?
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Very far.
Not close yet.
I’m hovering near it.
I feel close — almost there.
I’m already stepping into it.
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