Relational Wealth Assessment
  • Relational Wealth Assessment

  • Discover where you stand on the spectrum from relational poverty to relational wealth.

    Instructions:

    For each statement, choose the answer that best reflects your experience over the past 3 months.

  • I feel emotionally safe being fully myself in at least one relationship.*
  • I have people (more than one) I can call when I'm in crisis—and when I'm celebrating.*
  • I feel seen, heard, and valued in my closest relationship.*
  • I receive support without guilt or fear of being a burden.*
  • I offer support to others in ways that feel nourishing, not depleting.*
  • I experience mutual care and reciprocity in my friendships or partnerships.*
  • I can express my needs, boundaries, and emotions without fear of rejection.*
  • I trust those in my relationships to hold my truth with care.*
  • I allow myself to be vulnerable in relationships that matter to me.*
  • For the remaining questions, if you are a women, read them as they are and answer accordingly. If you are a man, replace the word "women" where that is written and interpret the question using the word "men".

  • I feel a sense of belonging in a community or circle of women.*
  • I collaborate with other women without fear of competition or comparison.*
  • I believe that deep, trustworthy relationships are possible for me.*
  • Severe Relational Poverty

    You may be experiencing deep disconnection, emotional isolation, or a lack of safe, reciprocal relationships. This is not a reflection of your worth—it’s a call for healing and reconnection.

  • Moderate Relational Poverty

    You may have some connections, but they may feel inconsistent, unsafe, or one-sided. There’s room to build trust, reciprocity, and emotional safety.

  • Relational Transition Zone

    You are on the path from scarcity to abundance. Some relationships are nourishing, others may still carry old patterns. This is fertile ground for growth.

  • Relational Wealth

    You are rooted in connection, reciprocity, and emotional safety. Your relationships reflect trust, joy, and mutual support. This is the soil where legacy and leadership thrive.

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