Stag & Vixen: A Readiness Reflection for Couples

This couples quiz explores how you each experience the stag–vixen dynamic — and how you relate to your partner’s desire inside it. It looks at arousal, boundaries, emotional impact, and readiness. Answer at your own pace and choose what feels true.
PART A — For Her (Vixen)

Section 1 — About You
Q1. When you catch someone openly wanting you, what does it awaken in you?*

I tense upI ignore itI feel a small sparkI get turned onIt hits me hard
Q2. How much do you crave outside attention when you’re horny?*

Not at allRarelySometimesOftenI actively want it
Q3. What turns you on most about your vixen side?*

Feeling prettyFeeling noticedFeeling wantedFeeling powerfulFeeling sexually dangerous
Q4. How bold are you about showing your sexy side?*

I hide itOnly jokingIn privateWith confidenceI love showing off
Q5. If you fully leaned into being a vixen — or if you’re thinking about stepping into it — what part of that fantasy turns you on the most?*

Being admiredBeing chasedBeing wantedBeing openly sexualOwning the attention
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PART B — For Her (Vixen)

Section 2 — About Your Stag
Q6. How does it feel knowing he gets hard thinking about you being wanted by others?*

UncomfortableConfusingInterestingHotExtremely arousing
Q7. What part of his stag fantasy turns you on most?*

His curiosityHis honestyHis desireHow turned on he getsHow obsessed he feels
Q8. How hot is it when he imagines you being wanted by another man?*

Total turn-offAwkwardKinda hotReally hotOne of my biggest kinks
Q9. How do you feel about him wanting details about your fantasies?*

I hate itI avoid itDependsI like itI love teasing him with it
Q10. How do you feel when he pushes you to own your vixen side?*

PressuredUnsureCuriousSupportedTurned on & empowered
PART C – For Him (Stag)

Section 1 – About You
Q1. What happens to you when you think about other men wanting your partner?*

It kills my moodFeels weirdSlight turn-onMakes me hardDrives me wild
Q2. How badly do you want to hear about her being desired?*

Not at allRarelySometimesOftenI crave it
Q3. What excites you most in this kink?*

ControlCuriosityTrustWatching her glowLetting her be wanted
Q4. How far do your fantasies go when you let them run?*

I shut them downKeep it mildLet them buildGo deepFull intensity
Q5. What part of being a stag feels the hottest to you?*

Supporting herAdmiring herFeeling proudHer confidenceSharing her (fantasy)
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PART D – For Him (Stag)

Section 1 – About Your Vixen
Q6. How do you feel about her enjoying male attention?*

ThreatenedUneasyCuriousTurned onProud & horny
Q7. What about her vixen side drives you crazy?*

Her smileHer flirtingHer confidenceHer boldnessHer sexual energy
Q8. If she wanted to push this kink further in dirty talk, how would you react?*

Shut it downPanicSlow itGet excitedPush it harder
Q9. What do you want her to feel when she knows you’re turned on by this?*

SafeDesiredConfidentPowerfulWorshipped
Q10. If she fully owned her vixen side, how would it change you?*

I’d pull backI’d feel unsureCuriousWant her moreBe obsessed
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PART A — For Her (Vixen)

PART B — For Her (Vixen)

PART C – For Him (Stag)

PART D – For Him (Stag)