MEN'S DATING and RELATIONSHIP SURVEY

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If you could solve ONE thing in your dating life immediately, what would it be?* This field is required.
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What type of woman are you ACTUALLY attracting? (Check all that apply)* This field is required.
Emotionally unavailable women
Women who aren't ready for commitment
Women who are great on paper (qualities & attributes) but no spark
Women I'm attracted to but not compatible with
Women who want me more than I want them
High-quality women who are relationship-ready
Women who don’t reciprocate my interest
I'm not attracting anyone right now
Other
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Which statement best describes your current dating situation?* This field is required.
I'm not dating at all right now
I'm actively dating but nothing is sticking
I'm in a situationship (undefined/unclear relationship)
I'm in a relationship but not sure it's the right one
I'm single by choice and not looking
Other
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What's the BIGGEST frustration you're experiencing in dating right now? (Choose all that apply)* This field is required.
Can't find women I'm actually interested in
Great first dates, but it never goes anywhere
Women I like don't seem interested in me
I attract the wrong type of women
I keep dating the same type of women
I don't know where to meet quality women
Other
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What would make the BIGGEST difference in your dating life in the next 3 months? (Select your top 3)* This field is required.
Knowing where to find the right woman
Knowing how to tell if she's right for me early on
Keeping her interest beyond the first few dates
Communicating better (especially during conflict)
Finding a woman that I can be vulnerable and feel emotionally safe with
Understanding what women actually want in a partner
Breaking my old patterns (family stuff, past relationships)
Building confidence and showing up as my authentic self
Knowing when to commit vs. when to walk away
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After how many dates do you think you should "know" if it is getting serious?* This field is required.
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Do you feel confident in your ability to judge whether a woman is ready for a relationship (emotionally, mentally, spiritually)?* This field is required.
Yes, very confident
Somewhat confident
Not really confident
No, I struggle with this
Not sure
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What makes you decide to commit to a woman?* This field is required.
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What is your biggest fear when it comes to committing to a relationship?* This field is required.
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What is the difference between dating and being exclusively in a relationship for you, if any?* This field is required.
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Do you use dating apps?* This field is required.
Yes, currently
Yes, but taking a break
Yes, but I am hardly on there
No, I don't use them
No, I have never used
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If you have in the past or are currently using dating apps, what has your experience been like? (Select all that are applicable- if you have never used dating apps check the last box)* This field is required.
I don’t get many matches
Many profiles seem low effort or unclear about what they want
I get matches, but they aren’t women I’m excited about
I get matches, but they rarely respond to my messages
Conversations start but fizzle out (they stop responding or I lose interest)
Conversations stay on the app and never turn into dates
It’s difficult to move from messaging to a phone call
It’s difficult to move from messaging to an actual date
I get dates, but they rarely turn into second dates
Using apps feels frustrating or draining
I’ve had mostly positive experiences with dating apps
I have never used dating apps
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If you are not currently OR have never used dating apps, what is the main reason?* This field is required.
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When relationships/dating situations end, what's usually the reason?(Choose your top 2)* This field is required.
She loses interest / pulls away
I lose interest / realize she's not the one
We want different things (timing, future, values)
Communication breaks down
Physical/sexual chemistry fades
Trust issues / insecurity / jealousy
I self-sabotage when things get good
Other
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On average, how long do your relationships/dating situations typically last before ending?* This field is required.
Less than 3 months
3-6 months
6-12 months
1-2 years
2+ years
I haven't been in a relationship in years
Other
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Once you're IN a relationship, what's your biggest struggle?* This field is required.
Keeping the spark/attraction alive
Communicating without it turning into a fight
Balancing independence and togetherness
Knowing if this is "the one" or if I'm settling
Navigating her emotions without losing myself
Regulating my own emotions
Setting boundaries without feeling like an asshole
I don't struggle - my issue is GETTING to a relationship
Other
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If there was a program that solved your biggest dating challenge, how much would you invest?* This field is required.
$0-$200
$200-$500
$500-$1000
$1000-$2000
$2000+
I wouldn't pay - I'd figure it out myself
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For your biggest dating and relationship challenges, how would you prefer to get support? (Select all that apply)* This field is required.
1:1 (personalized guidance for my specific situation)
A small group coaching program with other men
A hybrid program (group coaching + some one-on-one support)
A live workshop (a few hours focused on key strategies)
A 1-2 day event or retreat
An online course I could go through at my own pace
I would prefer to figure it out on my own
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If we created a workshop specifically for men struggling in dating, what would the topic OR title need to be for you to immediately think "That's for me"?* This field is required.
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If there’s anything else about your dating or relationship experiences you’d like to share, feel free to add it here. (
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What is your age range?* This field is required.
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25-29
30-34
35-39
40-44
45-49
50+
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What is your current career field or profession?* This field is required.
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We would love to stay connected. Can we reach out to: (Check all that apply)* This field is required.
Follow up on your responses (if we have clarifying questions)
Notify you about workshops or events we're building
Share resources based on what you're struggling with
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Email
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Phone Number (optional, but we know emails can get bogged down!)
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