Be honest. Do you fake it?
Share your thoughts on honesty, pleasure, and communication in intimacy.
This survey is anonymous and secure. It is a safe space for honest answers. The information collected is for research purposes only and may inform an upcoming book. There are no identifying questions, and your privacy is fully protected.
When you're with a sexual partner, how often do you actually tell them what you like?
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Always, I have no problem speaking up
Sometimes, depends on how comfortable I am with them
Rarely, I just kind of hope they figure it out
Never, I wouldn't even know where to start
Be honest. Have you ever faked it?
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Yes, more times than I can count
Yes, a few times
Once or twice
No, never
This question doesn't apply to me
Do you actually want your partner to tell you whether you're pleasing them?
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Yes, I want to know everything, good and bad
Yes, but please be kind about it
Only if something is seriously wrong
Honestly? No. I'd rather not know
I'm genuinely not sure
How do you want a partner to show you what they want?
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Just tell me, in the moment, out loud
Show me with their body, sounds, movement, energy
Talk to me about it after, when we're just chilling
Send me a text later if it's awkward in person
Just guide my hand or move me where they want me
I don't want them to say anything, I want to figure it out myself
I honestly don't know what I'd prefer
What is your gender?
Male
Female
Non-binary
Prefer to self-describe
Prefer not to say
Self-describe
Would you be willing to take a part two survey like this?
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Yes
No
Maybe
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