| TYPES OF BOUNDARY CROSSING |
STAYING IN BOUNDS |
| Sharing Personal Information: It may be tempting to talk to your client about your personal life or problems. Doing so may cause the client to see you as a friend instead of seeing you as a home care professional. As a result, the client may take on your issues/worries on top of their own. |
Use caution when talking to a client about your private life Remember that your relationship with the client must be professional, therapeutic, not social |
| Nicknames/Endearments: Calling a client 'sweetie' or 'honey' may be comforting to that client, or it might suggest a more personal interest than you intend. It might also indicate to some, that you favor one client over another. Some clients may find the use of nicknames or endearments offensive & disrespectful. |
Avoid saying honey and sweetie or the like Let the client determine how you will address them. Some may allow you to use their first name. Others might prefer a more formal approach: Mr., Mrs., Ms, or Miss- either is ok. Remember the way you address clients indicates your level of professionalism |
| Touch: Touch can be healing and comforting to some or it can be confusing, hurtful, or simply unwelcome. Touch should be used sparingly & thoughtfully. |
Ask the client if they is comfortable with touch Use only when it will serve a good purpose A client may react differently than you intend If used, ensure it is serving client's needs and not your own |
| Unprofessional Demeanor: Demeanor includes appearance, tone and volume of voice, speech patterns, body language, etc. Professional demeanor affects how others perceive you. Personal and professional demeanor can be completely different. |
Clients may be afraid or confused by loud voices Good personal hygiene is a top priority Professional attire sends a positive message Off-color jokes, racial slurs, profanity, slang are never appropriate Body language and facial expressions are always picked up by clients |
| Gifts/Tips/Favors: Giving or receiving gifts, or doing special favors, can blur the line between a personal and a professional one. Accepting a gift from a client might be taken as fraud or theft and is against agency policy. |
Follow the Agency policy on accepting gifts It's ok to tell clients that you are not allowed by agency policy, to accept gifts, tips Report offers of unusual or large gifts to your supervisor |
| Over-involvement: Signs may include spending inappropriate amounts of time with a client, visiting the client when off duty, trading assignments to be with a client, thinking that you are the only caregiver who can meet the client's needs. Under involvement is the opposite of over-involvement and may include disinterest and neglect. |
Don't confuse client needs with your needs Maintain a helpful relationship, treating each client with the same quality of care & attention, regardless of your emotional reaction to the client Ask yourself: Are you becoming overly involved with the client's personal life? If so, discuss your feelings with your supervisor |