Week 3 Connection Assessment
Learning to Fight for Our Relationship—Not Against Each Other - “A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger.”— Proverbs 15:1, KJV
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Renewing Our Covenant • Rebuilding Our Connection • Rediscovering Our Celebration.
1. What determines whether conflict strengthens or weakens a relationship?
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A. How often the couple disagrees
B. How quickly one person wins
C. How the conflict is handled
D. Whether the conflict is discussed publicly
2. During healthy conflict, couples should:
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A. Attack the problem instead of attacking each other
B. Avoid discussing difficult issues
C. Bring up previous mistakes as evidence
D. Continue talking until someone admits defeat
3. According to Proverbs 15:1, what can help turn away anger?
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A. A louder response
B. A soft answer
C. Complete silence
D. Proving your point
4. Which statement is an example of speaking truth without being harsh?
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A. “You never care about my feelings.”
B. “You always ruin everything.”
C. “There is no point in talking to you.”
D. “I feel hurt, and I want us to understand each other better.”
5. Which behavior should couples avoid during conflict?
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A. Asking clarifying questions
B. Taking responsibility when wrong
C. Threatening separation or divorce
D. Focusing on one issue at a time
6. What should a person do when emotions become too intense during a disagreement?
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A. Pause, calm down, and return to the conversation
B. Leave without explaining when they will return
C. Send angry messages instead of talking
D. Continue arguing until the issue is settled
7. Anger may sometimes be connected to:
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A. Hurt, fear, frustration, or feeling unheard
B. Having too much patience
C. Agreeing with your partner
D. Feeling completely understood
8. What is the primary goal of healthy conflict resolution?
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A. Proving who is right
B. Making sure your opinion is accepted
C. Avoiding every future disagreement
D. Understanding, healing, resolution, unity, and peace
9. Which response demonstrates healthy self-control?
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A. “You always make everything worse!”
B. “I am frustrated and need a moment to calm down, but I want us to finish this conversation.”
C. “I am done talking to you for the rest of the week.”
D. “Everybody needs to know what you did.”
10. Which action helps couples reconnect after a conflict?
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A. Pretending the disagreement never happened
B. Waiting for the other person to apologize first
C. Apologizing, forgiving, praying, and reconnecting emotionally
D. Reminding the other person of what they did wrong
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