Week 4 Connection Assessment
Intimacy, Affection & Restoring Connection - “Let all your things be done with charity.” — 1 Corinthians 16:14, KJV
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Renewing Our Covenant • Rebuilding Our Connection • Rediscovering Our Celebration.
1. According to the Week 4 lesson, true intimacy is:
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A. Avoiding difficult conversations
B. Being known, heard, safely vulnerable, and loved without having to perform
C. Spending every free moment together
D. Agreeing with each other about everything
2. Which of the following is included in the six dimensions of marital intimacy?
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A. Emotional, spiritual, mental, relational, recreational, and physical intimacy
B. Financial, professional, social, competitive, physical, and private intimacy
C. Emotional, professional, parental, financial, physical, and social intimacy
D. Spiritual, occupational, educational, physical, public, and financial intimacy
3. What does emotional intimacy allow a spouse to do?
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A. Hide difficult emotions to avoid conflict
B. Share feelings, fears, needs, grief, and hopes without being mocked or immediately corrected
C. Depend on friends instead of communicating with a spouse
D. Expect a spouse to solve every emotional problem
4. According to the lesson, affection is:
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A. Love expressed in ways the other person can recognize and receive
B. Something that is only important during dating
C. A reward that should be earned through good behavior
D. Limited to physical contact
5. Which action is an example of a daily deposit of affection?
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A. Comparing your spouse to another person
B. Waiting until your spouse asks for attention
C. Offering appreciation, focused attention, tenderness, or helpful service
D. Keeping a record of everything you do for the relationship
6. What are the “little foxes” described in the Week 4 lesson?
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A. Major emergencies that immediately end a marriage
B. Small, repeated habits that quietly damage connection and intimacy
C. Outside people who disagree with the couple
D. Financial challenges that cannot be resolved
7. Which behavior can quietly create distance in a relationship?
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A. Asking clarifying questions
B. Expressing appreciation
C. Praying together
D. Unresolved resentment, criticism, defensiveness, secrecy, or emotional neglect
8. According to the lesson, intimacy after hurt should be rebuilt through:
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A. Pressure and immediate trust
B. Ignoring the past and refusing to discuss it
C. Truth, repentance, compassion, consistency, boundaries, forgiveness, and time
D. Waiting for feelings to return without making changes
9. Which statement best describes a sincere apology?
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A. It identifies the wrong, expresses remorse, and takes responsibility without adding “but
you…”
B. It explains why the other person caused the behavior
C. It requires the hurt spouse to trust immediately
D. It avoids discussing the impact of the behavior
10. What are the five movements of restoration?
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A. Forget, avoid, excuse, separate, and move forward
B. Tell the truth, listen for impact, take responsibility, repair through consistent action, and create a new pattern
C. Defend, explain, compare, forgive, and forget
D. Pray, remain silent, wait, apologize, and celebrate
11. In the Married4Life “STILL” Commitment, the first “S” means:
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A. Stay silent during difficult conversations
B. Seek God together
C. Separate personal responsibilities
D. Solve every problem immediately
12. In the STILL Commitment, “T” means:
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A. Talk truthfully and tenderly
B. Take control of every conversation
C. Tell others about marital problems
D. Try to avoid uncomfortable subjects
13. In the STILL Commitment, “I” means:
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A. Ignore minor concerns
B. Insist that your spouse initiate connection
C. Initiate affection and interest
D. Identify everything your spouse needs to change
14. What do the two letters “L” represent in the STILL Commitment?
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A. Lead with authority and limit communication
B. Listen to understand and love through consistent action
C. Leave the past behind and live independently
D. Laugh together and limit disagreements
15. Which weekly covenant practice is recommended in the lesson?
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A. At least 30 minutes of uninterrupted connection, shared prayer, and one enjoyable activity
B. One conversation each month about the relationship
C. A weekly discussion focused only on problems
D. Spending time together while using phones and completing other tasks
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