带一个问题进来
不是来找我拿答案。是把你最近被卡住的那个片段——一段经文、一个商业决策、一段关系里的不对劲、一次祷告没回音的夜晚——放到棱镜下，我们一起看光从哪几个角度穿过去。我不一定答得上。但我会认真看。（请勿输入真实姓名、电话、住址等隐私信息）
称呼 / Name or how you'd like to be addressed
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First Name
Last Name
Email
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example@example.com
用你自己的话说说最近让你困扰或想理清楚的处境。 (Describe in your own words the situation you're trying to make sense of.)
在这件事上,你已经尝试过哪些方式(祷告、阅读、找人谈、自己想)?哪些有帮助? (What have you already tried — prayer, reading, talking to someone, thinking it through alone? What helped?)
事实 — 列三件确凿发生过的事:具体的时间、对方原话、做过的动作,能查证的那种。
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猜测 — 列三件'我觉得''我猜''我感觉'的事。
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以下四束光,哪些已经照过这件事?(可多选)
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信仰
关系与心理
工作与专业
现实的钱与时间
你想要的回应类型 — 请选一个:
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A. 帮我把这件事的结构理清楚
B. 帮我找出我自己看不见的盲点
C. 帮我想出一个可以马上动手的第一步
D. 我不确定,你看完前面几栏替我判断该给哪种
原文细读(可选)— 有没有一段文字、一句经文、或一段对话的原文,是你反复在想、绕不过去的那一句?贴过来。
如果暂时不去找"解决方案",只是被安静地陪伴着把这件事说清楚,对你来说会是什么感觉? (If, for now, there were no push toward a "solution" — just quiet accompaniment while you put this into words — what would that feel like?)
你希望这次会诊的节奏是? / Preferred pace
慢慢来,先建立信任 (Slow, trust first)
我已经准备好直接进入核心 (I'm ready to go straight to the core)
不确定,想先聊聊看 (Not sure, want to talk first)
What resources are you currently able to put toward working on this — rough weekly time, budget range, or people around you who could support this? This isn't an evaluation, just helps us design a pace that's actually workable.
If this accompaniment goes well, three months from now, what specific changes would you hope to see in yourself or in this situation?
你目前是否已在其他信仰群体/牧养关系中? 如果是,简单说说那段关系目前的状态。 (Are you currently in another faith community or pastoral relationship? If so, briefly describe its current state.)
还有什么你想先让我知道的? (Anything else you'd like me to know first?)
我清楚这份记录只是帮我把问题看清楚,不构成心理辅导、治疗或任何人生重大决定的依据;如果涉及心理危机或法律事务,我会另行寻找持证的 professionals.
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同意 (I understand and agree)
放进光里
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