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  • Compatibility, Curiosity & Limits

  • I already know what I like. I'm more interested in what you like.

    There aren't any right answers here. I want to understand what genuinely interests you, what you already enjoy, what depends on trust, what makes you curious, and what simply isn't for you.

    A hard limit is useful information too.

    This questionnaire is about compatibility, communication, and understanding how you like to submit. Your answers give me a clearer place to start a conversation.

  • Before We Begin

  • Are you 24 years of age or older? **
  • Are you genuinely interested in being on the submissive or bottom side of a connection with a woman Domme? *You can still be a switch. I need to know that submission is genuinely something you want with me.*
  • Are you looking for this connection for yourself rather than as part of a couple or group? **
  • Do you understand and agree to how your answers will be used? **

  • A Little About You

  • How do you currently see yourself in kink? **
  • What kind of connection are you open to? **
  • How experienced do you consider yourself with BDSM or kink? **

  • How You Like to Submit

  • What kind of dominant energy brings out the best in you? **
  • How much authority feels good to give a Domme? **
  • Which kinds of control appeal to you? **
  • How do you prefer to receive instructions? **
  • How much protocol appeals to you? **
  • How do you prefer correction or consequences to be handled? **
  • How much surprise do you enjoy during play? **

  • Communication, Check-Ins & Aftercare

  • What communication system works best for you during play? **
  • If you become quiet, hesitant, overwhelmed, or uncertain during play, how would you prefer me to respond? **
  • How do you feel about marks after play? **
  • What kind of aftercare tends to work for you? **

  • For the activity sections below, choose one answer per activity.

    Love it = something you strongly enjoy or want
    Enjoy it = something you like and would do again
    Curious = something you want to explore or learn about
    Maybe with trust = depends heavily on the person, trust, context, or negotiation
    Not interested = does not appeal to you
    Hard limit = no

    Curious and Maybe are invitations to discuss, not automatic permission. Hard Limit means no.

  • Bondage & Restraint
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  • Fetish & Presentation
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  • Humiliation & Control These refer only to consensual, negotiated play.
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  • Impact & Rough Play

  • Impact & Rough Play
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  • Roleplay & Power Exchange

  • Roleplay & Power Exchange
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  • Sensation & Punishment

  • Sensation & Punishment
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  • Higher-Risk or Permanent Interests These require separate discussion, risk assessment, and specific agreement. Your answer here is compatibility information only.
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  • Service & Controlled Behavior
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  • Structured Submission

  • Structured Submission
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  • Sexual Activity

  • Sexual Activity
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  • Consensual Fantasy Interests

  • These questions concern consensual fantasy or roleplay. Selecting an answer does not create consent to enact a scenario.
  • Consensual Fantasy Interests These questions concern consensual fantasy or roleplay. Selecting an answer does not create consent to enact a scenario.
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  • Voyeurism, Exhibitionism & Recording

  • Voyeurism, Exhibitionism & Recording
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  • If photos or video are involved, what privacy boundaries would you want? **

  • Fantasy & Multi-Person Interests

  • This section is about fantasy and curiosity only. An answer here does not mean this is something I offer.
  • Fantasy & Multi-Person Interests This section is about fantasy and curiosity only. An answer here does not mean this is something I offer.
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  • Curiosity, Limits & Negotiation

  • How would you like me to handle things you mark Curious or Maybe? **

  • Chemistry

  • Thank You

  • Thank you for being honest.

    Compatibility doesn't mean matching on everything.

    I'm much more interested in knowing what genuinely feels good to you, what makes you curious, what requires trust, and where your boundaries live.

    Your answers give me a place to start a conversation. They don't replace one.
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