The Five Love Languages Test
By Dr. Gary Chapman
Read each pair of statements and circle the one that best describes you.
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1. Choose the one that best describes you.
A. I like to receive notes of affirmation from you.
E. I like it when you hug me.
2. Choose the one that best describes you.
B. I like to spend one-on-one time with you.
D. I feel loved when you give me practical help.
3. Choose the one that best describes you.
C. I like it when you give me gifts.
B. I like taking long walks with you.
4. Choose the one that best describes you.
D. I feel loved when you do things to help me.
E. I feel loved when you hug or touch me.
5. Choose the one that best describes you.
E. I feel loved when you hold me in your arms.
C. I feel loved when I receive a gift from you.
6. Choose the one that best describes you.
B. I like to go places with you.
E. I like to hold hands with you.
7. Choose the one that best describes you.
A. I feel loved when you acknowledge me.
C. Visible symbols of love (gifts) are very important to me.
8. Choose the one that best describes you.
E. I like to sit close to you.
A. I like it when you tell me that I am attractive.
9. Choose the one that best describes you.
B. I like to spend time with you.
C. I like to receive little gifts from you.
10. Choose the one that best describes you.
D. I know you love me when you help me.
A. Your words of acceptance are important to me.
11. Choose the one that best describes you.
B. I like to be together when we do things.
A. I like the kind words you say to me.
12. Choose the one that best describes you.
E. I feel whole when we hug.
D. What you do affects me more than what you say.
13. Choose the one that best describes you.
A. I value your praise and try to avoid your criticism.
C. Several inexpensive gifts mean more to me than one large expensive gift.
14. Choose the one that best describes you.
E. I feel closer to you when you touch me.
B. I feel close when we are talking or doing something together.
15. Choose the one that best describes you.
A. I like you to compliment my achievements.
D. I know you love me when you do things for me that you don’t enjoy doing.
16. Choose the one that best describes you.
E. I like for you to touch me when you walk by.
B. I like when you listen to me sympathetically.
17. Choose the one that best describes you.
C. I really enjoy receiving gifts from you.
D. I feel loved when you help me with my home projects.
18. Choose the one that best describes you.
A. I like when you compliment my appearance.
B. I feel loved when you take the time to understand my feelings.
19. Choose the one that best describes you.
E. I feel secure when you are touching me.
D. Your acts of service make me feel loved.
20. Choose the one that best describes you.
D. I appreciate the many things you do for me.
C. I like receiving gifts that you make.
21. Choose the one that best describes you.
B. I really enjoy the feeling I get when you give me your undivided attention.
D. I really enjoy the feeling I get when you do some act of service for me.
22. Choose the one that best describes you.
C. I feel loved when you celebrate my birthday with a gift.
A. I feel loved when you celebrate my birthday with meaningful words (written or spoken.)
23. Choose the one that best describes you.
D. I feel loved when you help me out with my chores.
C. I know you are thinking of me when you give me a gift.
24. Choose the one that best describes you.
C. I appreciate it when you remember special days with a gift.
B. I appreciate it when you listen patiently and don’t interrupt me.
25. Choose the one that best describes you.
B. I enjoy extended trips with you.
D. I like to know that you are concerned enough to help me with my daily task.
26. Choose the one that best describes you.
E. Kissing me unexpectedly makes me feel loved.
C. Giving me a gift for no occasion makes me feel loved.
27. Choose the one that best describes you.
A. I like to be told that you appreciate me.
B. I like for you to look at me when we are talking.
28. Choose the one that best describes you.
C. Your gifts are always special to me.
E. I feel loved when you kiss me.
29. Choose the one that best describes you.
A. I feel loved when you tell me how much you appreciate me.
D. I feel loved when you enthusiastically do a task I have requested.
30. Choose the one that best describes you.
E. I need to be hugged by you every day.
A. I need your words of affirmation daily.
Add Total Number of Answers Here:
A. _________ Words of Affirmation
B. _________ Quality Time
C. _________ Receiving Gifts
D. _________ Acts of Service
E. _________ Physical Touch
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