This is where we learn your experiences, desires and limits. Read the following instructions carefully:

Column 1 - Activity/Device:  If you are unsure of what any of these are, Google and Wikipedia are great places to look.

Column 2 - Experience : This is your actual experience, whether it was pleasurable to you or not. Use the drop-down to select your response as follows...

Received - i have been the recipient of this activity / device or i have allowed this to be done to me. 

Given - i have given this to another or i have done this to another or used this on another.

Both – i have both given and received this.

NO - i have no experience with this activity and i do not want to (soft or hard limit).

Curious/ambiv - i have no experience with this activity but i am curious or ambivalent about it

WANT- i have no experience with this activity but i definitely do want to experience it

Column 3 - Receive: Willingness to have this done to you or used upon you or be made to do

Column 4 - Give: Willingness to do this to someone or use it on someone or make someone do

For Receiving and Giving, indicate for each item how you feel about that activity by rating it using the drop-downs either ???, NO or 0 to 5. you should rate each activity for BOTH giving and receiving. This is because you may love doing a particular thing to others, but hate it being done to you, for example.

"???" means you don't understand what the item is attempting to describe, or that you cannot give an opinion whether you would be interested or not, or it is not applicable to you (e.g. as a female you cannot receive cock & ball torture; as a male you cannot receive clit torture).

NO means you will NOT do that item under any circumstances (a hard limit).

0 (zero) indicates you have utterly no desire to do that activity and don't like doing it (in fact, may loath it) and would ordinarily object to doing it, but you would permit your Dom/me to do it if it they really wanted it. (sometimes called a "soft limit").

1 means you don't want to do or like to do this activity, but wouldn't object if it was asked of you.

2 means you are willing to do this activity, but it has no special appeal for you.

3 means you usually like doing this activity, at least on an irregular/occasional basis.

4 means you frequently like doing this activity, and would like to experience it on a regular basis.

5 means the activity is a wild turn-on for you, and you would like it as often as possible.

Note that almost EVERY cell in this checklist requires an answer. REMEMBER: the only right answer is an HONEST answer! You will NOT be judged because of any answers given, regardless of how kinky or perverse you may think your answer is.