- Knowing when and how to communicate with your athlete's coach or administration is a concern for parents at some point during the season. Most often, the concern is how to inquire about issues surrounding playing time. BoCo will NOT tolerate a hostile or aggressive confrontation between a parent or athlete and any official, coach, other parent, or other athlete, whether or not the coach, other athlete, or other parent is a member of BoCo Volleyball Club. Violation of this policy may result in the athlete being dismissed from the Club.
- It is inappropriate for any athlete or parent to approach other BoCo members or their parents about a problem the athlete or parents have with a BoCo coach, objections to coaching decisions, or a disagreement with an administrative decision or policy. Asking uninvolved persons to take sides in an issue is unfair to the third party and to the Club. Competitive team athletics, by its very nature, creates situations where not everyone may be happy all the time. For the psychological health of the team and the Club as a whole, grievances need to be handled by only the parties involved and the decision makers in the situation. Please note, your children hear what you say, decide how you want to teach your child to communicate in a positive and constructive manner and exemplify that to your athlete. Negativity will only make your child's experience less than wonderful and your child deserves to have a positive experience.
- BoCo encourages any athlete to talk to the coach when he/she has a question or concern about playing time or if he/she is unclear about what the coaches expectations are either in practice or competition. An appropriate attitude may be the the athlete to ask the coach what he/she needs to work on or do in order to get more opportunities to play in matches. This discussion should take place away from tournament play or practices.
- The coaches and/or Directors will not discuss "coaching decisions." Coaching decisions include, among other things, specific match decisions such as who played when, who subbed out and when, or in what position an athlete was played. The amount of time any athlete is given on the court is a result of a complex determination, in that coach's opinion, of the athlete's ability, the athlete's potential, the athlete's position, the attitude and work ethic, the team's need at the moment and the team's needs in the future.
- The coach will NOT be required to defend his/her thought processes, strategy, or conclusions in these determinations and it is improper for a parent to make that request.
- Coaches will NOT discuss any athlete other than the parent's own or the actions of any other BoCo coach. If you, as a parent, have legitimate concerns about your athlete's coach, or with an athlete other than your own, you need to address this with the Club Director(s). Please remember, that "coaching decisions" are NOT a legitimate concern.
With any discipline problems with an athlete, the coach will take the following steps of communication:
- The coach will speak to the athlete.
- If the issue is not resolved, the coach will then speak with the athlete's parents.
- If the issue is still not resolved, the coach will then speak with the Club Director(s).
- When a parent has a problem that is specific to their own athlete or an athlete has a legitimate concern to raise, the following steps of communication should be taken:
- The athlete should talk to the coach about the matter.
- If the issue is not received, the parent should then speak with the coach.
- If the issue is still not resolved, the parent may then speak with the Club Director and request a meeting with the coach and Director.
Meetings of this nature are to be at times and locations other than tournaments. If a parent approaches a coach during the tournament, we have instructed the coach to refuse to discuss any controversial matter and to walk away. The recommended time for a parent and/or athlete to talk to a coach about a problem is at a previously arranged meeting either before or immediately after a scheduled practice.
Repetitive complaining by a parent or athlete to third parties may be cause, the sole determination of the Club, to terminate club membership. Issues that are for the Club Board of Directors, not team specific, should be directed to the Director(s).
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