The following section deals with the issue of Cloister on the weekend. Tres Dias International has published a policy position on different issues around cloister on the weekend that we feel is very important for you as a team member to be aware of.
You participation in the weekend is not only a gift to the candidates but is also a gift to yourself, where you get to disconnect from the world and focus on Jesus for three days as you serve on the team. Don't miss this opportunity to experience why God has called you to serve on this weekend, disconnect, let go and give yourself to the weekend in the same way that we ask the candidates to do as they come to the weekend.
You can find the full policy document from TDI below.
REVIEW OF CLOISTER AS IT APPLIES TO THE TRES DIAS WEEKEND
ESSENTIALS 3.2.10: “That the team and Candidates live in a cloistered environment for the entire weekend.”
TRES DIAS GLOSSARY OF TERMS: “Cloistered Environment: An essential feature of each weekend is that it be a time of focus and concentration on the Lord’s teachings for both candidates and the team members. A cloister (from the Latin, claustrum, meaning an “enclosed space”) was that part of the monastery that the general public could not enter. As far as physical facilities permit, weekends are held in a cloistered (enclosed) space where team and candidates are insulated from the pressures of everyday life and distractions of the outside world. The rollo room should be completely cloistered, with the wearing of watches and use of telephones, PDAs and other electronic devices that allow intrusion from the outside world strongly discouraged.”
As part of serving on the weekend we ask that you read over the following Cloistered policy recommendations by Tres Dias International and adopted by Alamo City Tres Dias.
- All team members and candidates shall remain at the facility for the entire weekend and no one, including Spiritual Directors, shall be given permission to leave and return. Barring emergencies, the only exception would be:
- The Gopher Cha who is required to obtain supplies, etc., as part of their role on the weekend.
- The Head Spiritual Director (or a Spiritual Director) and the Rover to meet with the men / ladies during Serenade Practice to provide a report of the weekend in preparation for Serenade.
- Obviously some exceptions are reasonable when related to the bonafide medical needs of a candidate/pilgrim or a team member. But they must truly be validated emergency exceptions.
- No one should be permitted to join the weekend after the chapel visit on Thursday evening.
- Radios and TV’s shall be prohibited on the weekend. (Finding out the score of an NFL playoff game on a smart phone is bad enough, but it’s not the same as sitting in front of a TV watching the game!)
- We must honor the candidates’ “Right to self-determination” as per the Essentials 3.2.22. The candidates are adults and therefore shall not be manipulated, coerced or in any other way forced to comply with our directives against their will. (Obviously if a candidate is causing a distraction to others or is in any way impacting the cloister and/or general experience of other candidates, they can and should be asked to leave the weekend if no other options are available).
Read the section on "CLOISTER AS IT PERTAINS TO THE USE OF ELECTRONIC DEVICES ON A WEEKEND" in the TDI policy document as it is very important that as a team member, you try and adhere to these "Best Practicies" on the weekend. These are for the benefit of everyone since if someone sees you doing something, they may think it is okay for them to do that as well.