FVM Couple Questionnaire

Getting to Know You

Thank you for completing the below survey of questions. In order to ensure you the most personalized and exceptional wedding ceremony experience, please provide as much detail as possible. You can always come back to this form to update and add to your responses as well!
Bride

First NameLast Name
Groom

First NameLast Name
E-mail*
Phone Number

Area CodePhone Number
Ceremony Date*

MonthDayYear
Ceremony Time
Ceremony City
Ceremony Venue
How many guests will be there?
Is the Ceremony indoors or outdoors?
Ceremony Style

Secular (non-religious)ReligiousSpiritual
Will you be bringing any live animals to incorporate?
How would you like me to address you during the ceremony? (he/she/they, nickname or full name?)
When and how did you meet?
Who made the first move?
When did you fall in love?
How did you get engaged?
Why did you choose your wedding venue, and what does it mean to you?
Are there any specific readings you'd like to include in the Ceremony?
Will you be wearing formal or informal attire?
Vow Style:

Officiant WrittenOwn VowsPartner Written
Who are the Best Man and Maid of Honor? (tell me about these two & why you chose them)
Will guests be seated in a circle around the altar or in rows with a traditional isle?
Who are your guests? How do they fit into your lives?
Do your guests share your sense of humor, or do they roll their eyes when you make a joke?
How would your best friend(s) describe your vibe?
Tell me about a wedding you didn't like, and why?
Tell me about a wedding you loved, and why.
Would you like to incorporate a Unity Ritual?

Candle LightingJump the BroomHandfastingOther
Will you be exchanging Rings? Tattoos? Gifts? Meaningful glances?
Are there any traditions or rituals you’d like to leave out?
What memorable thing did your partner say to you during your first conversation?
Funniest memory you have of your partner?
What are your partner's biggest quirks?
How would you describe your partner?

E-mail me a description of you partner and what you like best about them (separately).

ie; curiosity, creativity, bravery, perseverance, integrity, enthusiasm, love, kindness, social intelligence, appreciation of beauty & excellence, gratitude, optimism, humor, purpose, self-control, prudence, humility, forgiveness, leadership, fairness, teamwork, perspective, love of learning, open-mindedness.
What does marriage mean to you?
Should I acknowledge any family/friends during the ceremony, that can not be with us that day?
Choose a safeword. Your safeword can be used to pause the ceremony at anytime.
What role do your families play in your lives?
How do you want to remember your ceremony? What do you want your friends and family to remember?
What are you most excited for about your big day?
What does the officiant timeline look like?
Will the Officiant be present for Rehearsal? Will the Officiant lead the rehearsal? What time should the officiant be at the venue, and for how long?
Minister Erin is also a Certified Love & Relationship Coach. Would you like to include pre-martial wellness/counseling to your ceremony package?

YesNo, thank you
Will there be a microphone or will there be any A/V available for the ceremony?
What do you want the officiant to wear?
Have you or will you be obtaining the necessary marriage license, for completion at the ceremony?

YesWe need some help with this
Are there any special announcements to be shared before the ceremony officially begins?
Cell phone free wedding? Turn phones on silent? Tell guests where to go for a cocktail after the ceremony?
Are there any deceased loved ones you would like to acknowledge? If yes, how?
Who will have the rings?
How would you like to be announced at the end of the ceremony?
What's your budget?
Officiant Budget - Let's make sure I give you all the very best options, within your budget!
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Getting to Know You