Mistress Lily K's Application to Submit

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Welcome,

I put a lot of effort and thought into providing informed, educated, ethical and top-notch practice. I want to engage with others who appreciate this level of quality and intent. I do not provide a one-size fits all formula, so I want to get to know you. You do not have to answer all of the questions, but I expect to see that you have made some effort. That way you show Me that you value My time and attention and that you can follow instructions.

Screening protocol is in place for My safety, for the quality of O/our session time, and is mandatory. All new clients will be required to pay a mandatory one-time USD 75 fee for a 30-minute video call with Me. This is a way for U/us to "meet & greet" and discuss your application and for you to demonstrate that you respect the time I take to get to know you. This is not a domination session, but a more casual chat.

Familiarise yourself with tributes & terms here.

The questions are formulated in English. I accept responses in Swedish, Norwegian, Danish and Spanish if you find it easier to express yourself authentically in any of those languages. Respond with care and authenticity.

For in-person sessions I require verification of your identity. This is for My safety and therefore not negotiable. If you are not prepared to offer this, I cannot session with you.

I take your privacy very seriously, so here is the small print:

The information you submit in this form is encrypted, and can be accessed only by Me.
The encrypted data is stored on servers in Germany. Only I have access to the encryption key so nobody else can get access to the data.
I will be using the information to gauge whether or not W/we are a good fit, and for mandatory screening purposes.
I will not share this information with anyone else.
As an extra precaution to further protect your privacy, apart from requesting an e-mail address, I do not ask anything in this form that can be used to identify you (though you are free to supply it if you wish to do so). I will however ask separately via e-mail for your legal name, phone number, and ID verification for in-person sessions.
If you want our e-mail conversation to be end-to-end encrypted you can use a ProtonMail account.

Email* This field is required.An e-mail address where I can reach you for next steps. Please keep checking your spam folder for information, especially if you are a gmail user.

example@example.com

Email Verified

The verification code has been sent to some@email.com
Please check your mailbox and paste the code below to complete verification

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I have read and accept Mistress Lily K's session tribute and associated fees.* This field is required.

YESNO

Name* This field is required.First name, optionally full legal name, or a name you would like Me to know you by.

What pronouns do you want Me to use with you?* This field is required.

she/her

he/him

they/them

other

Other

Age* This field is required.You must be over 18

18-25

26-35

36-45

46-55

56-65

65+

Desired location (country/city, or online)Check My whereabouts on My FetLife, website, or social channels. I can otherwise travel to you at extra cost (FMTY), or I can notify when I next plan to be near you if you do not wish to travel.

Where would you like your time with Me?* This field is required.Multiple options possible

Online

Dungeon (location dependent - may not be possible)

Hotel

Restaurant (high protocol dinner in public)

Public (shopping or other public activity)

Play Party or Event

Cap D'Agde Naturist Village France (August 2025)

Other

Length of session* This field is required.What length of session do you have in mind? This is not a commitment, only an indication. Minimum 90 min required for in-person.

30 min (online only)

60 min (online only, or in-person at events / play party)

90 min (minimum for in-person session)

2 hours

2+ hours

6-8 hours full day experience

Lock me up overnight

Torture me for days

What are your kinks & fetishes?* This field is required.A kink can be described as a practice, behaviour, or activity that turns you on in some way, that falls outside of what is considered "the norm". A fetish refers to something specific like an object, particular behaviour or a body part that needs to be present for a person to achieve sexual enjoyment or arousal. Frequently these terms are used interchangeably.

How would you describe your kink identity* This field is required.In addition the the previous question, would you say that you have a certain kink identity, role or persona? If so, please describe how you identify and/or what the defining characteristics are of this part of you. Also include any names you may be using or like to be called, and if your kink persona has a certain age.

Fantasies* This field is required.Describe the fantasy or fantasies that have led to this application. What makes you tick? How does your ideal Domme fit into that context and how would you describe the Domme of your dreams? Her appearance and behaviour, the words She is she using, what names She calls you by?

How do you want to be made to feel when dominated?* This field is required.Tick all that apply

Helpless

Vulnerable

Powerless

Cared for

Humiliated

Teased

Degraded

Encouraged

In Pain

Objectified

Shamed

Safe

Frightened

Useful

Useless

Appreciated

Mothered

Seduced

Small

Unworthy

Aroused

Other

How do you feel about pain?* This field is required.

I don't like pain

I don't really know / have limited experience

Some pain can be erotic

I want to please Mistress by suffering for Her

Pain is an essential part of play for me

I appreciate when my pain limits are pushed by Mistress

What are your boundaries, limits, fears, triggers, or trigger words?* This field is required.Include any words, phrases or nicknames that I should not be using. Especially include hard limits, e.g. activities or words that you do NOT want to experience.

Can I take photographs or videos of you in session?* This field is required.It would please Me to take a few photos or videos for memory, education, or use on my social channels or website. However I will not do so without your consent.

No, no photos or videos

Yes, but only of my body

Yes, if my face is blurred or covered

Yes, put me on full display Mistress!

Other

Are marks allowed?* This field is required.Marks may not be applicable depending on session type and your limits and boundaries. Please note that marks could be instructed to be self-inflicted in online session so this question applies to both online and in-person.

Not applicable

No marks

Marks lasting a few hours

Marks or bruises lasting 1-2 weeks

I will proudly show off any marks you give me Mistress!

Other

Allergies or sensitivities (in-person only)Do you have any allergies to anything that might be used in session? For example, metal, latex, substances in oils, creams or lubricants. Also include any food allergies. Sensitivity to scents, for example perfume or incense?

Health* This field is required.Do you have any physical health concerns, medical conditions or disabilities? Do you have any mental health conditions or disabilities that I should be aware of that may influence your experience in session? Examples: High blood pressure, mobility issues or joint problems, cardiovascular disease, pace maker, implants, recent surgeries, diabetes, asthma, STIs, ADHD, autism, depression. I need to know for your safety.

References from other DommesFor in-person session request: if you have it, provide names and contact details to two Dominatrices that I can contact for reference. Include the name they know you by.

If requested, I consent to providing my full legal name, phone number, and a copy of a form of ID, or alternatively other means of verifying who I am.* This field is required.If you answer NO to this question your session request will be automatically rejected. ID will not be required for online sessions but you still have to answer YES.

YESNO

Questions for Me?If you have any questions for Me that you would like to ask Me in the screening call, list them here. You can also use this field to add anything else you wish to say at this point.

How did you find Me?* This field is required.Select one or more options

Fetlife

Event / Play Party / Conference

Twitter / X

Web search

Instagram

Word of mouth / recommendation

Evolutionary Dominatrix Academy

Bluesky

Other

What is your Fetlife profile name?Optional, if applicable

WHAT HAPPENS NEXT

I will review your application. I will then respond to you with acceptance or rejection.

If I accept your application, I will send you options for a time to connect on a zoom video call and how to pay. Once paid I will send send you the call link.

This call will be approximately 30 min. W/we will discuss the information in your application and this gives U/us both an opportunity to determine if proceeding is a good idea. This is not a call where any domination takes place.

If I or you decide to not move forward to session there will be no refund for the call.

By submitting this session application, you understand that domination does not involve sex or any unlawful act. You also confirm that you will not ask for activities that are hard limits for Me. I will not guarantee any specific types of play, but will take your interests into consideration.

Make sure that you have read about tribute and fees before submitting your application.

Mistress Lily K's Application to Submit