Request an Appointment

Before you make a date...

Links

• You may view my ad on my Tryst profile, which includes my about me, details on my services/rates, and my touring schedule.
• I am active on Twitter @em_li_sea! You can see additional photos, what I'm up to on a day-to-day basis, and my adventures while on tour.
• For all other links, you may check out my linktr.ee/em.li

Important notes

• Incorrect form submissions will be allowed with one warning for corrections at my discretion with an additional inconvenience fee of $200 to be added to your deposit. Otherwise, you will be blocked for time wasting and be disqualified from booking any future in-person dates with me.
• Compensation is for my time and companionship only.

Screening
Without exception, I require all first-time dates to be screened before scheduling. This is not only to ensure my safety, but also so that I can feel at ease when I’m spending time with you.

In respect to your privacy, any information provided remains strictly confidential and will be deleted after the screening process is done.

 

If there are any concerns with sending your information through my form, you may send your booking information, making sure all the necessary fields are provided, to date.emli@pm.me

Please note that long email conversations in which I have to repeatedly request your screening information will also require a $200 inconvenience fee to be added to your deposit.

I also offer alternative screening methods through in-person coffee meets or video call options to present the same required screening information below. You may select the option in my form below for more information.

 

I accept one of these three methods for verification:

1. Provider references: List at least two well established independent providers who you have met within the last 12 months. Please include a link to their website and email address.
2. P411 handle: Please provide your P411 handle with at least two OKs.
3. Employment Verification: If you choose this method, at least TWO of the below items are needed. Please rest assured, I will never contact you at your work unless discussed and agreed to in advance.
   
   1. Your business email associated with your company. I will ask you to send an email from your company email to my unpublished inbox. I do not accept Gmail or other free providers of email addresses.
   2. A link to your LinkedIn page with established interactions to your posts.
   3. A link to a photo of your work badge/business card.
   4. A link to a page on your company's official website with your title, your name, and a clear picture of yourself present.

Rates

My rate starts at $1500 for an hour with discounts for longer bookings. Please note my rates are non-negotiable and are not subject to discussion.

1 hour - $1500

1.5 hour - $1800

2 hours - $2000 (Recommended minimum!)

3 hours - $2900

4 hours - $3800

6 hours - $5000

8 hours - $7000

12 hours - $9000

14 hours, overnight - $9000

24 hours - $12,000

48 hours - $22,000

5 days - $40,000

 

Accepted payment methods are currently through physical cash, Venmo, Cashapp, Throne, and cryptocurrency (USDC, Bitcoin, or Ethereum).

 

More the merrier?

I'm open to couples! Rates are an additional $300/hour with a 2 hour minimum, and you both have to pass screening.

Duos with other providers are fun too! Rates are theirs plus mine.

Deposits
I require a 25% non-refundable deposit to secure your booking. You may round down to the nearest $100 amount for ease of payment splitting. This amount goes towards booking my hotel in-call and commuting costs.

 

Accepted payment methods for deposits are currently through Venmo, Cashapp, Throne, cryptocurrency (USDCS, Bitcoin, or Ethereum), or gift card amounts of my choosing.

 

Cancellation / reschedules

I understand that life doesn’t always cooperate with our plans and if you need to reschedule our date, I am happy to accommodate reschedules within two weeks from the requested appointment date if available.

Cancellations made more than a week from our scheduled time: No cancellation fee.

Within 7 days of our scheduled time: 10% cancellation fee.
Within 48 hours of our scheduled time: 20% cancellation fee.

No-shows: 30% cancellation fee.

 

Failure to pay the cancellation fee will result in being disqualified from booking any further in-person dates with me.

I accept one of these three methods for verification:

1. Provider references: List at least two well established independent providers who you have met within the last 12 months. Please include a link to their website and email address.
2. P411 handle: Please provide your P411 handle with at least two OKs.
3. Employment Verification: If you've never booked with another provider before.

If you would like to book me for a specific date/time, please fill out my form at least 48 hours in advance of your requested time slot. The further in advance you request, the more likely I can accommodate your first choice date.

In the rare case that I am available for a same-day request, I require an additional fee of $100.

Time requests outside of my usual waking hours of 9am - midnight require an additional fee ranging from $200 - $500 based on how far outside my range the request is.

Please note the time zone of the slot if chosen (default is PST for Seattle).

I am often unable to accommodate in-date extensions. If my schedule allows however, we may extend by the hour, at a rate of $800.

Booking priority is given to longer dates.

 

Expectations during longer dates

Dates booked for 3 hours or more must include social time, and the expectation is that the date will start in our booked hotel room to ensure distraction-free settlement of payment.

One meal is required per 4 waking hours. All expenses for meals, transportation, and social activities during our date will be covered by you.

Overnight dates must include a minimum of 7 hours of uninterrupted sleep.

Please see details on my different options on my website here! https://em-and-you.com/payment-methods/

 

A few things to note:

• Compensation is for my time and companionship only.
• I do prefer full advance payment if possible, so that we may begin our time together uninterrupted by formality. Dates with full advance payment will not incur any cancellation/reschedule fees.

In-call or out-call?

 3-4 star hotel booked by me near downtown Seattle/or other downtown touring city, discounted hotel cost to be added to the deposit, typically $200

Touring

You may find my tour schedule on my Tryst profile or typically pinned on my Twitter @em_li_sea. https://tryst.link/escort/emli

If you don't see your city on my tours list, here are the details to FMTY/sponsoring a tour if you would be interested!

Rate: Roundtrip airfare for me to book my fights + hotel in-call + my rate for your requested date duration (2 hour minimum if I've not been to the city before, 4 hour minimum otherwise)

I will book my own flights and hotel room for my discretion.