Glittergasm Events Vetting Form

Glittergasm Events is run by two people who both have multiple other responsibilities and jobs. In order to balance these responsibilities, we go through all the vetting form applications for membership in batches depending on when we have upcoming events, and do not review vetting forms on a rolling basis.

The amount of time it takes to hear back depends on our upcoming events. We go through all applications prior to announcing our next private event, which means if we're on a hiatus and have not been hosting events, it may take some time to get a response.

If there's an upcoming event you'd like to attend, we stop reviewing incoming vetting forms FOUR WEEKS before our next event. If you fill out the vetting form less than four weeks before an event, you likely will not receive any information until the following event. Additionally, we take an annual hiatus following our final event in November and will review vetting upon our return in January.

This form will take approximately 10-20 minutes to fill out. There is a great deal of information that we ask you to read to ensure community safety and security. We will ask for information regarding your consent beliefs, your social media, and a verification photo that will include a photo ID. If you have trouble filling out this form, or have any questions please email us at the below emails.
 

For any questions or concerns regarding this process, please email: hello@glittergasmevents.com

If you need accessibility support in filling this form out, please email:
access@glittergasmevents.com

We understand that this form is lengthy but it is designed to ensure that the individuals who are joining our community are dedicated to upholding the safety of our events and community. 
 

Please be thoughtful with your replies. We use these responses to ensure that the people attending our events have a thorough understanding of consent, so please respond with answers that communicate that understanding. All parties of a couple must apply for vetting individualls. Applications that are incomplete (missing information, include fake information, or have superficial consent answers) WILL BE DENIED.

 

We are very focused on the safety and protection of our community. We have been trusted with so much love and support, and we take that trust seriously. This section of questions is used to vet our attendees in order to ensure the safety of our all of our members.

Please answer all questions thoroughly. If you do not, we may need to follow up on further clarification of your answers and this will delay the vetting process. 

 

Applications that have superficial consent answers WILL BE DENIED.

 

If you need accessibility support in filling this portion of the form out, please email:
access@glittergasmevents.com

Please read the following information carefully, incorrectly filling out this portion of the form may lead to your application being denied.

In order to verify that you're a living, breathing, human being we ask for a verification photo. 


Please attach a photo that includes a clear view of your face, while holding your drivers license or some other photo ID that has your name clearly displayed. 

 

Our events are by members of the LGBTQIA+ community, and at this time, exclusively for the LGBTQIA+ community. If you're questioning or still figuring it out, please select "yes" (you're welcome at Glittergasm Events!) If you're still feeling unsure of what to select, it's probably a "yes," but you can always reach out and email us at hello@glittergasmevents.com

Please answer the following questions thoughtfully and as extensively as you feel comfortable. We review these responses carefully and consider them throughout the vetting process. A thorough understanding of consent is mandatory before we approve your vetting.

If we feel your answers are insufficient we'll reach out with a link to another more thorough questionnaire regarding consent before membership will be granted.

Thorough, thoughtful answers will get you vetted more quickly.

Applications that have superficial consent answers WILL BE DENIED.

WHO ARE GLITTERGASM EVENTS FOR:

Glittergasm events are parties which allow folks to interact in a very chill way where physical touch and exploration is allowed in a safe, non-judgemental space at the comfort and speed of the folks involved. These events often have a focus and a design and are created as an intentional space. We ask that individuals coming to our events respect that intention.

Glittergasm Events are "choose your own adventure" events. There are multiple levels of interaction for individuals to engage at their own comfort and pace with individuals who might be at similar levels of comfort and interaction. Additionally, Glittergasm Events might have a "maximum" level, or specific rules regarding clothing based on the venue.

• G: Event may include affectionate but not sexual activities, genitals must be covered. Nipples are allowed in G-rated spaces, however this is dependent on the venue and local laws (if we're at a public venue, dress in "street legal" attire).
• PG-13: Event may include kissing, some touching, genitals must be covered. Nipples/toplessness is okay. 
• R: Sex can and may be present
• Kink: Sex and Kink may be present

If you are not sure if you're a good fit for a specific event or for any other questions please contact us at hello@glittergasmevents.com.

(All event attendee policy language is developed in large part with community assistance. We would like to thank the community members who have shared their time, energy, education, and emotional labor to help us create this language.)

 

EVENT INFORMATION AND CONSENT RULES:

• - ***Due to allergies and scent sensitivities, we ask that you do not wear perfume or cologne and limit the amount of other scented body products (hairspray, mousse, etc) otherwise you may be asked to return after a shower. ***
• Alcohol and drugs are not allowed at this event, and anyone who arrives intoxicated will be asked to leave.
• This is a Covid-Conscious event and we update our policies based on the current information available. Specifics regarding event precautions will be available in our event details.
• If you bring food, please ensure ALL INGREDIENTS are written for those allergic, (seriously though, Rebecca is allergic to corn/corn syrup so… all ingredients).
• You will be asked to sign a liability form before entry. No exceptions. Depending on the location, there may be an additional venue form. If you do not sign the form, you will be asked to leave and will forfeit your ticket.

 

HOUSE RULES

• Ask before touching or changing touch
• Respect the No
• What happens here, Stays here
• If you need help, find a Glitterati team member
• This is a no tolerance event. If you are making someone uncomfortable you will be given two warnings. After that you will be asked to leave. Consent violations will be an immediate removal from the event.

ONLINE COMMUNITY RULES:

These rules are a living document. Please respect that as our community grows and changes, rules may need to be updated. (Updated March 2026)

• Please join our Discord server to connect with other members. Discord members are also able to access pre-sale tickets and vote on community changes.
• Respect the No - Ask before messaging or friending anyone. Anyone engaging in this behavior will be banned from the group and all Glittergasm Events.
• If you need help, email hello@glittergasmevents.com or tag an admin. Do not message the official Glittergasm Events discord account as it is not monitored.
• What happens here, stays here - Any screenshots or sharing outside of the server will be an immediate ban from the group and all Glittergasm Events.
• If you see something against the rules or that makes you feel unsafe let the staff know. We want this server to feel safe and welcoming.
• Treat everyone with respect. Absolutely no harassment, transphobia, ableism, sexism, racism, fatphobia, or hate speech will be tolerated. Please contact the mods to report an issue.
• Believe best intent - people are at differing parts of their journey and may not intend to say something hurtful or offensive (or may not know differently). Please approach each other with curiosity and kindness.
• Do not DM without consent.
• NO NSFW photos/content outside of the NSFW chats.
• ALL members must be vetted before joining the discord server.
• Vetted members should only use one discord account to ensure that everyone is vetted appropriately. (If you have joined with multiple accounts due to a technical issue, please let the mods know)
• This is not a space for harassment, demeaning language, airing of interpersonal issues, etc. and any messages that fall into that vein will be removed by moderators. 
• We reserve the right to remove membership at any time, for any reason. 

ONE MORE NOTE:

All vetted members are added to the mailing list, and you will only be sent important community updates and event tickets and information. We take privacy very seriously and will not share your information with anyone. Once we approve your vetting, you will receive an email with links to our private Discord server. We have archived our Facebook Group as of June 2024.

I understand that all Glittergasm Events are fragrance-free events. By signing, I agree that I will not arrive at a Glittergasm Event wearing fragranced products (perfume, cologne, axe, aftershaves, scented body sprays or lotions, or scented clothing sprays [i.e febreeze]).

 

I understand that if I arrive wearing fragranced products, I may be ask to attempt to wash them off. If I am unable to wash the fragrances off at the event, I understand that I may be asked to return home to shower. If I am unable to shower and return before the door close time, I will not be allowed to attend the event. 

 

I understand that if I arrive wearing fragranced products, and am unable to remove those fragrances by the time the doors close, I forfeit my ticket.

Glittergasm Events is run by two people who both have multiple other responsibilities and jobs. In order to balance these responsibilities, we go through all the vetting form applications for membership in batches depending on when we have upcoming events, and do not review vetting forms on a rolling basis.

 

The amount of time it takes to hear back depends on our upcoming events. We go through all applications prior to announcing our next private event, which means if we're on a hiatus and have not been hosting events, it may take some time to get a response.

 

If there's an upcoming event you'd like to attend, we stop reviewing incoming vetting forms FOUR WEEKS before our next event. If you fill out the vetting form less than FOUR WEEKS before an event, you likely will not receive any information until the following event. We take an annual hiatus following our final event in November and will review vetting upon our return in January.

We ask that you please give us 14-21 business days before emailing regarding your vetting status. Emails received before that time frame will not receive a response.

For any questions or concerns regarding this process, please email: hello@glittergasmevents.com