We believe that the discipline of a child is achieved through patience, consistency, and positive reinforcement. We also try and teach the children in our care manners, kindness and to be respectful to others. One of the ways in which we do this is by the example we as providers set. We understand that our actions and reactions speak much louder than our words. The rules of the center are explained to the children frequently, so they know what’s expected of them. Once a child is old enough to understand the rules and disobeys them by exhibiting inappropriate behavior (hitting, aggression, etc.), hurts others, or property, the following developmentally appropriate guidance techniques will be used:
- Positive Reinforcement: The child will be encouraged when he or she is demonstrating acceptable behavior.
- Redirection: The child is redirected to another activity and given an opportunity to try again at another time.
- Time-Out: The child is separated from the group for an age appropriate amount of time (one minute per one year of age). This technique is only used when a child repeatedly will not follow our directions or listen to our words, is exhibiting temper tantrum type behavior, or hurting one’s self, others or equipment. When the child shows that he or she is ready to demonstrate acceptable behavior, they are encouraged to join the rest of the group to try again.
- Last Resort: When a child’s behavior is continually upsetting or dangerous to others, a conference will be called with the parents. If the problem cannot be resolved, arrangements will have to be made for the child to go elsewhere for care.
- Children shall NOT be subjected to discipline that is severe, humiliating, or frightening.
- No cruel, harsh, physical, or unusual punishments shall be permitted.
- No child shall be delegated or permitted to discipline another child.
- No physical restraints, equipment, devices, or furniture shall be used to confine a child, including, without limitation, swings, walkers, and spinners.
- No child shall be confined in an enclosed area, such as a closet, locked room, box, or bathroom.
- No child shall be subjected to profane language, threats, derogatory remarks, or other verbal abuse.
- No child shall be punished for failure to eat or sleep, or for toileting accidents.
- No child shall be punished by with-holding food, rest, or use of the toilet.
- No physical punishment shall be used, such as, but not limited to, spanking, hitting, striking, biting, or pinching.
- No child shall be threatened with any punishment that is prohibited by this paragraph.
Note: Sometimes if both a parent and a provider are both in the same area (examples would be during drop-off and pick-up times) a child may forget the rules and test the boundaries. Please help show your child that you respect us, the rules of our center, and our property by reminding them that the rules still apply when you are around. We will also remind them of the rules and correct them if needed.
My signature below indicates that I have received a copy of the discipline policy, it has been reviewed with me, and I have read and understand this policy.
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