Couples 2:2 Coaching Program
The modern relationship has evolved, men and women alike are becoming conscious of their actions, choices, and how their pasts have affected their current relationships. Now more than ever people are interested in becoming the conscious person they have always dreamed of so they can show up in their relationships. We have not only done the personal work on our own, but we both manifested and called each other into one another’s life to experience the profound love we dreamt of. What we have come to build doesn’t just happen. It takes work, hard work. What we are here to do is help teach what we’ve learned along the way to empower and create the safe space every relationship wants, and every partnership deserves. We embody the shared meaning system of relationship. We understand there are a few core foundational aspects to every relationship that need continuous attention. What we have found is that through our experience and learning techniques taught around the world we are able to provide a shared safe space for any couple to heal and grow.
Are you tired of disconnected communication? Always disappointed and resentment has set in? Do you have trust issues or feel like you’re losing yourself? Are your arguments and disagreements getting worse and worse? Feeling disconnected and boundaries are being crossed? Is the trust broken? We believe it is never too late to salvage a worthwhile meaningful relationship. This is not for the faint of heart. This will likely be the most difficult journey you embark on. Are you ready to get comfortable with being uncomfortable? Is your relationship, your life worth it?
We will go through the keys to a conscious relationship. Including lessons from methods such as The Gottman Institute and Imago Therapy. We’ve blended things together and fused them with our experience. We call it the TnT Method.
Empowering Communication
- How to speak with intention and thoughtfulness. How to play on the same team, be heard and seen. How to understand each other even in disagreement
Shared Vision
- This might be the most important of the bunch. It is highly critical both parties hold a collective vision for the relationship. What does the intention and meaning of this partnership bring to each person? What values and needs are being met? What desire does each have to explore and expand the relationship?
Cultivating Trust
- This is the foundation of which everything is built upon. Powerful and profound relationships balance their weight on trust, but this is not just a simple concept. We’ll explore all of the domains of trust and how we begin to repair each when there are breaches. We’ll go through the understanding of how to co-create conscious agreements within your relationship in effort to help build an unbreakable bond of trust created by the couple.
Excitement
- How can a relationship thrive without some excitement and play? Feeling like roommates and not soulmates? In this section we’ll dive into techniques to help build a relationship with excitement and LIFE. Learn to prioritize moments and experiences that keep you both lit up, growing and excited about exploring life with your partner.
Emotional Intimacy
- Building, maintaining, and honoring deep emotional intimacy is a skill that is essential to having deep and meaningful connectedness. We will dive into what it takes to achieve this by truly opening your heart and letting your partner in. Together we’ll learn how to let your partner explore and understand your world from a space of compassion and empathy.
Shifting Conflict to Growth
- How can we turn conflict into growth? Learn to navigate your disagreements and conflicts and actually create amazing opportunities to grow TOGETHER. Gain a deeper level of self awareness. Relationships are all about conscious expansion, and we can only achieve this level of self exploration through having a powerful mirror that allows us to see ourselves objectively, and shows us where we still may need to heal or explore.
Fulfilling Needs
- Each of us has a unique set of needs that yearn to be met while in partnership. These needs may include admiration and praise, physical affection, support and service, variety and growth, sexual fulfillment, quality time and shared activities, security, gifts, and communication needs.
We each bring decades of experience not only working with other couples, but bringing our own life’s experience to the table. We both know love, because we both sucked bad at it. Tracy is a divorced mom trying to navigate not only a relationship with Tate, but recovering from a decade of narcissistic abuse. Tate has been married twice, and chose to learn from his shortcomings and own to disown. Between the two of us we have four children and navigate not only a long distance relationship, but the challenges that come with blending a family and ex’s. Each of us has spent years working on ourselves not only to be the person we wanted to be for ourselves and our children but to call each other in as well. Today we are living out our dreams and working hard to build and foster a joyful, and meaningful relationship that lasts. Through courses like the Gottman Institute and Imago Therapy as well as honing the crafts of breath work and somatic healing we bring a gamut of help so couples can thrive in a relationship.
What you are about to embark on takes courage and determination. We can assure you this, you won’t regret it. You can have what you desire, you deserve it.