FinDom Application Form

Financial Domination (FinDom) Submissive Application
Please note there is a non-refundable $25 application fee.
To have your application considered, a $25 tribute is required. If you really want to catch my eye, feel free to send more than the minimum — generosity never goes unnoticed. Applications without the required $25 tribute will be ignored, so take a moment to review this form carefully before moving forward.

When you’re ready, you can pay tribute using one of the following methods:
- Cash App: https://cash.app/$swiminamberlake
- YouPay: https://youpay.me/amberlake
If you’re using Cash App, make sure to include only your Reddit username in the payment note for verification. For YouPay, send me a direct message on Reddit with a screenshot of your completed tribute. A screenshot of the tribute in your cart will not be accepted and will result in disqualification.

Keep in mind that YouPay has an additional $2.50 fee, making the total $27.50. I recommend using Cash App if possible to avoid the extra charge. And please, don’t message me asking about alternative payment methods — following instructions is essential, and failing to do so will again result in immediate disqualification.

Once you’ve completed these steps, you’re ready to proceed with the application.
A Message from Amber Lake
Hello, my hopeful subs!

Filling out this form isn’t just an introduction — it’s your first step in building something meaningful with me. It allows me to understand who you are, your past experiences, and what you truly crave as a submissive to your FinDomme. This is your chance to show me not only your desires but also your sincerity and commitment.

Before we can explore the potential of a Domme/sub connection, it’s important that we align in our interests and expectations. This form is designed to help us find that harmony. I encourage you to be honest, open, and reflective as you fill it out. Vulnerability is not a weakness here; it’s a strength. It shows your willingness to trust, grow, and embrace something truly special.

By completing this, you’re not just asking to be part of my world — you’re inviting me to see the real you. Take this opportunity to open yourself to new experiences and show me your devotion. Submission isn’t just a role — it’s a gift beyond comparison.

Thank you for expressing interest in exploring this dynamic with me. Your answers will lay the foundation for our first one-on-one interaction — a moment that has the potential to deepen your understanding of yourself and what submission means to you.

As always, I’m unapologetically confident in the financial and psychological domination I provide. Together, we’ll create something powerful, transformative, and utterly unique.

Devote yourself to me. I promise it will be unforgettable.

XOXO,
Amber
Personal Information
Name*

First NameLast Name
Preferred Name
What are your pronouns? Select all that apply.*

She, her, hersHe, him, hisThey, them, theirsOther
How do you identify? Select all that apply.*

Cisgender WomanCisgender ManTransgender WomanTransgender ManTransfeminineTransmasculineNonbinaryGenderfluidGenderqueerAgenderBigenderTwo-SpiritIntersexAssigned Female at Birth (AFAB)Assigned Male at Birth (AMAB)Other
What is your sexual orientation? Select all that apply.*

StraightHeteroflexibleLesbianGayBisexualQueerPansexualAsexualDemisexualAromanticUnsureOther
What is your age?*
When is your birthday?*

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Date
Where do you live?
State or Province, Country
What else would you like me to know about you?
Financial Domination Experience
What name(s) would you like me to use when referring to you?*
Good Boy, Slut, CashPig, Puppy, a nickname or pet name, etc.
Are there any words or names that are off limits?*
Let's discuss safe words. A safe word is a predefined word or phrase that signals the need to pause or stop the dynamic immediately, ensuring everyone's safety and comfort.

You’re welcome to suggest your favorite safe word(s), or we can use the standard "stoplight system," which works like this:
- Red Light: Stop immediately. This signals that a boundary has been reached or something is wrong, and the activity must halt without question.
- Yellow Light: Pause or proceed with caution. This indicates discomfort or hesitation and is a request to slow down, check in, or adjust the activity.
- Green Light: Everything is okay, and you’re happy to continue. This confirms comfort and enthusiasm for what’s happening.
What safe word(s) would you like to use in our dynamic?*

I’d like to use my own safe word(s).I’d like to use the stoplight system (red, yellow, or green light).I’d like to use a combination of my own safe word(s) and the stoplight system.
Please specify any safe word(s) you would like us to use below:
What are your primary kinks and fetishes?*
What is your dream Domme like? Describe her for me.*
Be as detailed as possible.
How much personal experience do you have with FinDom?*

Less than 6 months6-11 months1-2 years3-5 yearsMore than 5 years
Which FinDom dynamics are you interested in pursuing? Select all that apply.*

Soft Domme: A nurturing, yet firm approach where the Domme exerts financial control with kindness and care, avoiding aggression or humiliation.Mommy Domme: A maternal-style dominance where the submissive is “taken care of” financially while meeting the Domme’s expectations through discipline and guidance.Total Power Exchange: The submissive surrenders full control of their financial decisions and resources to the Domme in a consensual, long-term arrangement.Tributes: Regular monetary gifts from the submissive to show loyalty and devotion.Gift-Giving: The submissive buys luxury items or gifts to demonstrate their devotion.Adopt a Bill: The submissive covers a recurring expense (e.g., rent, utilities, or a subscription) for the Domme.Humiliation: The Domme mocks or scolds the submissive over their financial decisions or contributions.Blackmail: A consensual dynamic where the submissive provides material the Domme could use against them (e.g., compromising photos) to add psychological intensity.Exposure: The submissive consents to the Domme threatening to reveal their financial contributions or secrets for psychological excitement.Fantasy Homewrecking: A role-play where the Domme pretends to “destroy” the submissive’s life through financial or emotional manipulation within agreed boundaries. (Extreme scenarios leading to real-life harm are not offered.)Sissy Training and Feminization: The submissive completes tasks or makes purchases to feminize their role in the relationship.Girlfriend Experience: A pseudo-romantic dynamic where the submissive pays for attention, emotional closeness, and financial control.Bratty Girlfriend Experience: Similar to the Girlfriend Experience but with a stronger emphasis on the Domme’s authority and control.Debt Contract: A consensual agreement where the submissive takes on specific financial obligations, mimicking real-life debt scenarios within clear ethical boundaries.FinCuck: The submissive provides financial support or tributes to Amber and her partner, Leo Mars (known as mxleomars on social platforms and in URLs), with an emphasis on being excluded from their lifestyle or relationship.Other
What are your preferred payment methods? Select all that apply.*

Cash AppYouPayIn-person ($300 mandatory minimum required)
What is your preferred length of time for a debt contract or Domme/sub dynamic? Select all that apply.*

Less than 6 months6-11 months1-2 years3-5 yearsMore than 5 yearsUntil a specific goal is achieved
Are there any personal goals you’d like to explore or achieve through a long-term Domme/sub relationship?*
Think about any habits you’d like to build or break, areas where you’d like guidance or accountability, or other ways I can support your growth.
Are you nervous or scared by the thought of signing a long-term contract with a Dominatrix?*

YesNo
Do you think you can make this commitment and stay a loyal submissive?*

YesNo
How do you feel about including a "buy-out" option in a contract? Would you appreciate the option to buy out of a contract if the need arose?*
What is your availability like during a normal week for communication, tasks, or sending tributes?*
Do I have access to you 24/7? What days and times offer you the most privacy? Be forthcoming about anything you might want me to know.
Tell me about your financial situation and outline a budget you can reasonably commit to on a daily, weekly, monthly, and/or annual basis.*
Be honest and realistic about your financial situation. The goal is to establish a budget that works within your means while allowing you to commit to this dynamic responsibly. Keep in mind that if you’re not sending at least a $75 tribute each week, you’re likely not prepared for a long-term FinDom arrangement. Transparency here ensures trust and helps avoid unnecessary stress for both of us.
Completing the Application Form
Your well-being matters to me, and I want you to thrive in every way. To make this dynamic fulfilling for both of us, your happiness is just as important as mine. You can trust that your privacy will always be respected because discretion is essential in what we share.

As your Domme, my goal is more than just draining your wallet or testing your limits. I want to help you grow, discover more about yourself, and make your life and fetish experience deeply rewarding. Life is already hard enough — this connection should feel like a source of comfort and excitement, not stress or burden.

Honest communication is the key to making this work. If you’re truly unable to send a payment, tell me. If a punishment feels like too much, let me know. If you need to step away for a while, share that with me. (Although a final tribute is always expected, of course.)

Our connection is special — more meaningful than friendship, yet different from love. I’m here to be your partner in this unique journey, someone who helps you feel truly seen. Together, we’ll create something unforgettable.
By checking each of these boxes and submitting this application, the submissive agrees to the statements below.*

I confirm that I have completed this application truthfully and to the best of my knowledge. I understand this constitutes full disclosure and replaces any prior verbal or written statements. I acknowledge that withholding or falsifying information may result in the immediate termination of the contract.I understand that it is my responsibility to inform Amber of any changes in my financial situation or personal life that could affect my ability to serve as her submissive.I understand that completing this application does not guarantee acceptance as Amber’s submissive. It only guarantees that my application will be thoughtfully reviewed and that I will receive a direct and honest response once a decision has been made.If chosen, I commit to serving Amber with honesty and dedication. This is my first step toward submission, and I am determined to make it meaningful.I understand that submitting this application without the required non-refundable $25 tribute will result in automatic disqualification.
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Financial Domination (FinDom) Submissive Application

Please note there is a non-refundable $25 application fee.

A Message from Amber Lake

Personal Information

Financial Domination Experience

Completing the Application Form