GFE Application Form

Girlfriend Experience (GFE) Application
Please note there is a non-refundable $25 application fee.
To have your application considered for girlfriend experience services, a $25 tribute is required. If you really want to catch my eye, feel free to send more than the minimum — generosity never goes unnoticed. Applications without the required $25 tribute will be ignored, so take a moment to review this form carefully before moving forward.

When you’re ready, you can pay tribute using one of the following methods:
- Cash App: https://cash.app/$swiminamberlake
- YouPay: https://youpay.me/amberlake
If you’re using Cash App, make sure to include only your Reddit username in the payment note for verification. For YouPay, send me a direct message on Reddit with a screenshot of your completed tribute. A screenshot of the tribute in your cart will not be accepted and will result in disqualification.

Keep in mind that YouPay has an additional $2.50 fee, making the total $27.50. I recommend using Cash App if possible to avoid the extra charge. And please, don’t message me asking about alternative payment methods — following instructions is essential, and failing to do so will again result in immediate disqualification.

Once you’ve completed these steps, you’re ready to proceed with the application.
A Message from Amber Lake
Hello, my wannabe boyfriends, girlfriends, and theyfriends!

Filling out this form isn’t just an introduction — it’s your first step in building something meaningful with me. It allows me to understand who you are, your past experiences, and what you truly crave as a part of this dynamic. This is your chance to show me not only your desires but also your sincerity and commitment.

Before we can explore the potential of a GFE connection, it’s important that we align in our interests and expectations. This form is designed to help us find that harmony. I encourage you to be honest, open, and reflective as you fill it out. Vulnerability is not a weakness here; it’s a strength. It shows your willingness to trust, grow, and embrace something truly special.

By completing this, you’re not just asking to be part of my world — you’re inviting me to see the real you. Take this opportunity to open yourself to new experiences and show me your true self.

Thank you for expressing interest in exploring GFE with me. Your answers will lay the foundation for our first one-on-one interaction — a moment that has the potential to deepen your understanding of yourself and what kink and sexuality mean to you.

Together, we’ll create something powerful, transformative, and utterly unique. I promise it will be unforgettable.

XOXO,
Amber
Personal Information
Name*

First NameLast Name
Preferred Name
What are your pronouns? Select all that apply.*

She, her, hersHe, him, hisThey, them, theirsOther
How do you identify? Select all that apply.*

Cisgender WomanCisgender ManTransgender WomanTransgender ManTransfeminineTransmasculineNonbinaryGenderfluidGenderqueerAgenderBigenderTwo-SpiritIntersexAssigned Female at Birth (AFAB)Assigned Male at Birth (AMAB)Other
What is your sexual orientation? Select all that apply.*

StraightHeteroflexibleLesbianGayBisexualQueerPansexualAsexualDemisexualAromanticUnsureOther
What is your age?*
When is your birthday?*

MonthDayYear
Date
Where do you live?
State or Province, Country
What else would you like me to know about you?
Kink Experience and Preferences
What name(s) would you like me to use when referring to you?*
Good Boy, Slut, Loser, a nickname or pet name, etc.
Are there any words or names that are off limits?*
Let's discuss safe words. A safe word is a predefined word or phrase that signals the need to pause or stop the dynamic immediately, ensuring everyone's safety and comfort.

You’re welcome to suggest your favorite safe word(s), or we can use the standard "stoplight system," which works like this:
- Red Light: Stop immediately. This signals that a boundary has been reached or something is wrong, and the activity must halt without question.
- Yellow Light: Pause or proceed with caution. This indicates discomfort or hesitation and is a request to slow down, check in, or adjust the activity.
- Green Light: Everything is okay, and you’re happy to continue. This confirms comfort and enthusiasm for what’s happening.
What safe word(s) would you like to use in our dynamic?*

I’d like to use my own safe word(s).I’d like to use the stoplight system (red, yellow, or green light).I’d like to use a combination of my own safe word(s) and the stoplight system.
Please specify any safe word(s) you would like us to use below:
What are your primary kinks and fetishes, and how much personal experience do you have with them?*
What is your dream girlfriend/provider like? Describe her for me.*
Be as detailed as possible.
Which GFE dynamics are you interested in pursuing? Select all that apply.*

Romantic: The most common GFE dynamic that emulates a loving, affectionate relationship, featuring gestures of intimacy and emotional connection.Supportive: A nurturing dynamic where the provider offers emotional support and encouragement, fostering a sense of companionship and understanding.Gift-Giving: A dynamic that incorporates the client purchasing gifts as a means to express appreciation, affection, or to enhance the relational experience.Bratty: A playful dynamic where the provider adopts a mischievous or rebellious persona, often challenging authority within a consensual power play.Humiliation: A consensual dynamic where the client experiences playful teasing or verbal degradation, exploring feelings of vulnerability and submissiveness.Cuckolding: A roleplay scenario where the client assumes the role of an overlooked partner, often involving themes of jealousy and longing.Other
If you indicated interest in the cuckolding dynamic above, please describe how involved you would like Amber's partner, Leo Mars (known as mxleomars on social platforms and in URLs) to be involved.*
Answers can range anywhere from actively involved in the cuckolding dynamic to completely uninvolved. It's up to your preferences, which can also evolve and change over time.
What are your preferred payment methods? Select all that apply.*

Cash AppYouPayIn-person ($300 mandatory minimum required)
Are there any personal goals you’d like to explore or achieve through a GFE dynamic?*
Think about any habits you’d like to build or break, areas where you’d like guidance or accountability, or other ways I can support your growth.
What is your availability like during a normal week? How many hours per week do you hope to interact with Amber? This helps determine pricing.*
Do I have access to you 24/7? What days and times offer you the most privacy? Be forthcoming about anything you might want me to know.
Completing the Application Form
Your well-being matters to me, and I want you to thrive in every way. To make this dynamic fulfilling for both of us, your happiness is just as important as mine. You can trust that your privacy will always be respected because discretion is essential in what we share.

Honest communication is the key to making this work. As your GFE provider, I want to help you grow, discover more about yourself, and make your life and fetish experience deeply rewarding. Life is already hard enough — this connection should feel like a source of comfort and excitement, not stress or burden.

Our connection is special — more meaningful than friendship, yet different from love. I’m here to be your partner in this unique journey, someone who helps you feel truly seen. Together, we’ll create something unforgettable.
By checking each of these boxes and submitting this application, you agree to the statements below.*

I confirm that I have completed this application truthfully and to the best of my knowledge. I understand this constitutes full disclosure and replaces any prior verbal or written statements. I acknowledge that withholding or falsifying information may result in the immediate termination of the contract.I understand that completing this application does not guarantee a client-provider relationship. It only guarantees that my application will be thoughtfully reviewed and that I will receive a direct and honest response once a decision has been made.I understand that submitting this application without the required non-refundable $25 tribute will result in automatic disqualification.
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Girlfriend Experience (GFE) Application

Please note there is a non-refundable $25 application fee.

A Message from Amber Lake

Personal Information

Kink Experience and Preferences

Completing the Application Form